- Achievement or Fulfillment?
- Decisions are like road signs, they help you reach the right path.
- You are in charge for yourself and no one else but only you.
- Dreams are for your own, fulfillment are for others.
- You can always revert your decisions and make it into something you wanted it to be.
- Your real fulfillment is to grow.
Everybody wants to achieve something but we cannot achieve and become successful unless we learn something and we grow. We wanted to become big and to be on top and that is because of our dreams. In our life, we constantly change and renew ourselves because of our dreams and goals that we wanted to achieve and by which those goals are only for ourselves. But as we reach our success we do not consider about our own growth. Because of our dreams we became selfish. Fulfillment comes in a different angle. Fulfillment is for other people. What are the things that you wanted to fulfill? Is it your parent’s dream for you? You wanted to fulfill what other people demanded you to be? No matter what your answer is, always remember that you will always be in charge in your own life. Your dreams and your future depends on you. Your decisions make you strong and it makes your life exciting and fun. You have the steering wheel so you decide which path to take.
You are the author of your own book and of your own destiny. Your future depends upon yourself because you have the power to change what’s everything in front of you. Fulfillment may also become a promise or a job. But what we think is that fulfillment is more important than achievement, what do you think? They say that achievement is just only for yourself but fulfillment is not only for you but instead it is for other people. What matter the most for you? The good and benefit of yourself or for the others? Many people are fed up by the idea of success and the idea of being on top while you are stepping above other people. Always remember that your decisions shape your life. Some say that decisions are like muscles, the more you make it to more you get stronger, isn’t right? Just like what is said above, you are the only one who have the power to change what is everything in front of you and that is through decisions. If something bothers you, change it.
If you do not feel that something is not right about one thing, then go change it. You cannot upgrade and go to another level if you are still stuck in the same problem and the moment you realize that something is wrong, you need to have and make a decision but remember to think a million times before you make the final decision. If you made the wrong choice, then do not be pressured and do not feel bad about it. If you made a wrong choice, you are not too late to make it right and you should consider it as a lesson. Make sure to consider all the aspects and concepts needed to be able to choose and do the rightful move. From this decisions, we have learned many things but with this knowledge and information that we had acquired, we need to convert it into action and if we don’t – there’s no use for it.
We should figure out how to make our visions real. Stand Up and make a move! While you are still alive and while you can still move, make your visions come true. Make your dreams and fulfillments come true or else and at the end you will regret and wish that you made the decision to change your present and your future. You know what should everybody fulfill? It’s the fulfillment to grow. Growing is what we really need. If you will not grow, nothing will happen to you as well as in business. If it does not grow, nothing will happen and the whole idea of that business in no use. If you cannot let yourself grow, there will be no room for improvement, for growth, and for development. But if you let yourself grow and develop, you will change for the better and that change that you started could spread out through the universe and all of us will have the chance to grow and to find their purpose, what they really want to achieve and what their fulfillment is.
Our brains are complex. Others think that it is designed and made for us to be happy but the truth is it is designed for our survival and every time that we are having problems, our brain is always there. But what is the reason why are you suffering? Well it is because you are focusing on yourself and you are being selfish. Some does not admit it, but that is the truth and the truth really hurts. According to Tony Robbins, he found the three thought patterns of suffering and that is Lost, Less and Never. Lost – there are some situations that you feel that you lost respect or we lost something like material things, we suffer and we get depressed with it, right? If we have failed to do something for a person isn’t it that we felt less respect and less love? And if we didn’t do something for our friends, or for other people – we feel that we will never have something again. But to avoid suffering, we should have “appreciation”. When we start to appreciate things, our sufferings lessen and if we also think positive then our sufferings will vanish.
People think that fulfillment is more important than achievement but the real score or the real answer to that only depends upon yourself. The decisions and moves that you make are the ones important and matters the most. In deciding, do not fear to make the wrong choice because in the end, you can always revert and change into the way you wanted it to be. Remember to grow up and to level up because it is your real fulfillment, to find your purpose, and to convert your knowledge into action. We suffer and we find joy because of ourselves. Our life is a journey or a trip, remember to drive it in the right path.